Hikmah & Keistimewaan Umat Nabi Muhammad SAW

1- Allah SWT menjadikan mereka lemah supaya tidak sombong.

2- Mereka dijadikan kecil supaya tidak membazir dari segi makanan dan pakaian.

3- Umur mereka dijadikan pendek supaya tidak banyak melakukan dosa.

4- Mereka dijadikan fakir supaya ringan hisab mereka di Akhirat kelak.

5- Mereka dijadikan umat terakhir supaya tidak lama berada dalam kubur.

Kitab Tanbihul Ghafilin. Jilid 1 & 2. M/S : 785.

*Untung tp kalau xpandai menghargai kelebihan yg diberi, untung akan menjadi rugi.....*

Emah oh Emas~!

Duit oh duit!~

hihi~

Ape relatednye emas dengan duit? nak beli emas kena lah ade duit.. nak beli apa2 pun sekarang ni guna duit..duit kertas yg bila bakar mmg hilang harga nya..cuba kita bakar emas, nilai masih ade..hihi..

So0o, actually sy n mr hubby ni saja2 eh buat persediaan.. Persediaan bila duit kertas tu xlaku.. Ye lah, kertas kan.. anytime je tak laku.. Saya ni suka gak aa beli emas secara berperingkat..tp bukan jongkong emas tu..xmampu lagi.. beli dinar sikit2.. niat nak simpan je pun.. n beli jua la sikit2 dirham... Pastu simpan kat safe deposit mana2 bank.. mane leh kasitau saya simpan kat mane kannnn.. hihi

Ape itu dinar? Kenapa nak simpan dinar? Secara logik, sila berfikir ye...Naik turun duit kertas bergantung pada apa?Pada kenaikan & kejatuhan ekonomi satu negara tu... bila negara tu declare mata wang kita xlaku,konpem xlaku.. so walaupun duit beribu riban dalam bank, tetap xlaku.. tp kalau emas, akan senantiasa laku :)

Simpan emas plak ade 2 cara.. 1 cara yg amat digalakkan adalah beli emas fizikal.. maknanya emas tu nampak depan mata.. dapat dipegang oleh kita.. lg satu cara yg agak glamour, buka akaun kat bank.. tp xde la pegang2 emas nie..xtau pun ade ke x emas yg betul pada bank tu.. saya xberani buat camtu kerana otak saya ni selalu pk negative.. kalau bank tu bankrupt, dapat ke balik emas tu? hihi..

So sekarang nie, saya cuba mengosongkan duit kertas saya :)) xsilap saya baca kat mana tah, tinggal 30% dari simpanan dalam bentuk wang kertas tuk emergency.. kalau ikutkan pengiraan, masih banyak wang kertas sy simpan sbb saya simpan kat bank yg merata.. haha~ tadek keje kann.. yg pasti setiap kali gaji masuk, CIMB saya tu pasti nak dekat2 0.. haha.. erk, usha2 ade plak org post pasal bingkai dinar.. tuk dijadikan pendant.. hehe.. berminat sbb mr.hubby ade kasi dinar mase nikah haritu.. so igt nak jadikan sbg pendant la plak :)

opsss, sambung buat kerja.. mg ni relaks sket sbb student cuti.. hihi~

*taleh nak buat colourful coz kom nie x allow.. n saya xtau nak ubah setting..haha :D*

pssst : insyaAllah akan dipermudahkan semuanya kalau niat semata2 kerana Allah :) yea mg nie g 'honeymo0n'.. sebelum g honeymo0n tu sempat plak pi makan japanese buffet... xsabaa!! kena kosongkan perut neh XD

Keperluan dan kehendak

Semua tahu kan maksud keperluan dan kehendak? Dengan keadaan zaman sekarang, kehendak melebihi keperluan.. Mari kita usha2 contoh2nye..

1. Memiliki kereta adalah satu keperluan memandangkan sistem pengangkutan kita pun xberapa nak canggih mcm jepun kan.. kat jepun xrase pun kereta tu satu keperluan sbb train dia da meliputi satu jepun.. Tp memiliki satu kereta boleh jadi kehendak bila kereta ada banyak kat rumah tp still nak kereta baru or beli kereta yang harga rm100k ++.. tp kalau ikutkan sekarang, ramai yang suka beli kereta mahal sbb tahan lasak.. saya beli honda stream dulu pun sbb keperluan.. ye lah kan, family 6 org.. so consider la tuk beli kereta yg besar.. (kalau ikutkan kehendak, nak yang 5 seaters jer..) huhu..

2. Ingin memiliki duit yang banyak jua satu kehendak.. Saya rase kalau kita tahu untuk manage duit, insyaAllah cukup je.. bak kata org, berbelanja pun berpada2.. belanja pada yg perlu shj, bkn mengikut kehendak.. kerana org sekarang ni, asek complain duit xcukup lah, tiada duit la.. tu semua sebab kehendak melebihi keperluan. Alhamdulillah, xcukup duit / tiada duit ni bkn masalah tuk saya.. *walaupo0n anda mungkin tahu sy skang ni surirumah tuk sementara waktu..* kalau ikutkan gaji mr.hubby xbesar mane pun.. tp mampu la support saya nie kan.. mampu la gak nk wat ape yang perlu.. mcm honeymoon ke, kami xpergi pun.. memula rase sedih la gak kan.. tp memikirkan honeymoon tu hanya kehendak je, so saya pun da redha.. bkn sbb tiada duit ye, sbb saving tuk perkara yang lagi penting.. Bos saya pernah cakap, bile gaji besar, spend pun besar gak.. tp ye lah kan, pandangan org berbeda2.. hihi

3. Wedding yg gempaq : Ofcos kehendak.. haha~ saya dulu impikan jugak la yg gempaq.. tp bile masuk pasal duitt, terus pendamkan..haha~ pujuk hati semua tu bkn keperluan..huhu.. Contohnye pelamin yang lawa gile harga beribu tu.. tu kehendak ya.. saya punya simple je sbb saya rase xrelevan tambah duit semata2 nak pelamin lawa..hihi~ sejak kenal mr.hubby nie, byk yg saya belajar okeyh.. Alhamdulillah :) klu pi wedding kawan2 (after kawen), mesti teringin gak nak pelamin cam dorg.. yg gempak2 n yg lawa... tp mr hubby mesti cakap "seb baek da kawin awal2.." ~ haha..

4. Travel : ni mmg jelas2 bkn keperluan.. ni lagi2 la kehendak.. Kehendak yg agak parah kalau duit xberapa nak mencukupi.. Tipu la kan saya taknak travel especially ke overseas.. oh mmg keinginan sungguh.. tp memandangkan sekarang nie bukan keperluan *in fact dalam negara pun xberapa nak mampu*, dan bagi saya keperluan lebih dari kehendak.. saya kuburkan je lah.. baik xyah berangan / impikan sbb saya xsuka keciwa.. hihi~! Kalau nak pi travel pun, mcm once in a year je kott.. tu pun sbb dgn family.. *end of this month g jalan2.. beli tiket dari last year lagi..haha~ tu pun dalam negara gak..* Saya kadang2 urayamashii dgn org yang boleh pi jalan2 every year ke overseas, kadang2 2-3 kali setahun.. tp saya pujuk hati.. Mungkin ada yang lagi baik tuk saya & mr.hubby..Amin :)

Dan kawan2, nasihat dari saya, jgn la selalu sebut tiada duit.. sbb kata2 tu satu doa.. mmg slalu la tiada duit walaupo0n sbnrnye ade duit tp sbb kita saving, jadi mcm tiada duit.. mama saya selalu marah kalau cakap tade duit.. n saya jua rimas org selalu cakap tiada duit.. haha~! ape2pun saya nak sampaikan, jgn biarkan "kehendak" menang.. biar lebihkan keperluan.. pasti hidup akan senang n senantiasa cukup duit :)

*saya pun xtau kenapa saya merapu gini pg2 buta ni.. haha.. tetiba rase nak menulis ape yg saya rase dari dulu lagi.. nak tulis tp xtertulis.. ayat pusing2 sbb ye la kan, straight from my heart.. chewahh.. ape2 pun, lebihkan keperluan dari kehendak.. supaya kita xrase seperti kita xcukup duit :) mari positifkan diri kita ya!~ yipeeeeee*

Kembalinya Ramadhan

+ Gamba hiasan semata2 +

Selamat berpuasa ya kawan2 sekalian xkira di mana sahaja..

Di jepun atau di M'sia..

Jangan ponteng puasa yeee..
*kecuali yg dibenarkan =D*

Semoga Ramadhan kali ini lebih baik dari Ramadhan2 yang lepas...
Semoga Allah memberi pengampunan kepada dosa2 lepas..
Semoga ditemukan malam lailatul-qadar..
Aminnnnn...

Ya Allah, dengan rahmat-Mu, ampunkan dosa kami, terimalah taubat kami..
Suburkan lah cinta kami kepadamu....
Sesungguhnya kamilah hamba yg mengharap belas dari-Mu..

*Lapangkan lah hamba-Mu ini Ya Allah tuk beribadat demi mendapatkan keampunan & keredhaan-Mu......*

A story worth sharing~

A story worth sharing

4 years ago, an accident took my beloved away and very often I wonder, how does my wife, who is now in the heavenly realm, feel right now? She must be feeling extremely sad for leaving a husband who is incapable to taking care of the house and the kid. 'cos that is the exact feeling that I have, as I feel that I have failed to provide for the physical and emotional needs of my child, and failed to be the dad and mum for my child. There was one particular day, when I had an emergency at work. Hence, I had to leave home whilst my child was still sleeping. So thinking that there was still rice leftovers, I hastily cooked an egg and left after informing my sleepy child.

With the double roles, I am often exhausted at work as well as when I am home. So after a long day, I came home, totally drained of all energy. So with just a brief hug and kiss for my child, I went straight into the room, skipping dinner. However, when I jumped into my bed with intention of just having a well-deserved sleep, all i heard and felt was broken porcelain and warm liquid! I flipped open my blanket, and there lies the source of the 'problem'... a broken bowl with instant noodles and a mess on the bedsheet and blanket! Boy, was I mad! I was so furious that I took a clothes hanger, charged straight at my child who was happily playing with his toy, and give him a good spanking! He merely cried but not asking for mercy, except a short explanation:

"Dad, I was hungry and there wasn't anymore leftover rice. But you were not back yet, hence I wanted to cook some instant noodles. But I remembered you reminding me not to touch or use the gas stove without any adults around, hence I turned on the shower and used the hot water from the bathroom to cook the noodles. One is for you and the other is for me. However, I was afraid that the noodles will turn cold, so I hid it under the blanket to keep it warm till you return. But I forgot to remind you 'cos I was playing with my toys...I am sorry Dad..."

At that moment, tears were starting to run down my cheeks...but I didn't want my son to see his dad crying so I dashed into the bathroom and cried with the shower head on to mask my cries. After that episode, I went towards my son to give him a tight hug and applied medication on him, while coaxing him to sleep. Then, it was time to clear up the mess on the bed. When everything was done and well past midnight, I passed my son's room, and saw that he was still crying, not from the pain on his little buttock, but from looking at the photograph of his beloved mummy.

A year has passed since the episode, I have tried, in this period, to focus on giving him both the love of his dad and mum, and to attend to most of his needs. And soon, he is turning seven, and will be graduating from kindergarten. Fortunately, the incident did not leave a lasting impression on his childhood memories and he is still happily growing up. However, not so long ago, I hit my boy again, with much regret. This time, his kindergarten teacher called, informing me of my son's absence from school. I took off early from work and went home, expecting him to explain. But he wasn't to be found, so I went around our house, calling out his name and eventually found him outside a stationery shop, happily playing computer games. I was fuming, brought him home and whack the hell out of him. He did not retaliate, except to say, 'I am sorry, Dad'. But after much probing, I realized that it was a 'Talent Show' organized by his school and the invite is for every student's mummy. And that was the reason for his absence as he has no mummy.....

Few days after the caning, my son came home to tell me, the kindergarten has recently taught him how to read and write. Since then, he has kept to himself and stayed in his room to practise his writing, which I am sure, would make my wife proud, if she was still around. 'cos he makes me proud too! Time passes by very quickly, and soon another year has passed. It's winter, and its Christmas time. Everywhere the christmas spirit is in every passer-by...Christmas carols and frantic shoppers....but alas, my son got into another trouble. When I was about to knock off from the day's work, the post office called. Due to the peak season, the post master was also on an edgy mood. He called to tell me that my son has attempted to post several letters with no addressee. Although I did make a promise never to hit my son again, I couldn't help but to hit him as I feel that this child of mine is really beyond control. Once again, as before, he apologized, ' I'm sorry, Dad' and no additional reason to explain. I pushed him towards a corner, went to the post office to collect the letters with no addressee and came home, and angrily questioned my son on his prank, during this time of the year.

His answer, amidst his sobbing, was "The letters were for Mummy. " My eyes grew teary, but I tried to control my emotions and continued to ask him: " But why did u post so many letters, at one time?" My son's reply was: " I have been writing to mummy for a long time, but each time I reach out for the post box, it was too high for me, hence I was not able to post the letters. But recently, when I went back to the postbox, I could reach it and I sent it all at once..." After hearing this, I was lost. Lost at not knowing what to do, what to say.... I told my son, " Son, mummy is in the heavenly kingdom, so in future, if you have anything to tell her, just burn the letter and it will reach mummy. My son, on hearing this, was much pacified and calm, and soon after, he was sleeping soundly. On promising that I will burn the letters on his behalf, I brought the letters outside, but couldnt help opening the letter before they turn to ash.

And one of the letters broke my heart....

"Dear Mummy,
I miss you so much! Today, there was a 'Talent Show' in school, and the school invited all mothers for the show. But you are not around, so I did not want to participate as well. I did not tell Dad about it as I was afraid that Dad would start to cry and miss you all over again. Dad went around looking for me, but in order to hide my sadness, I sat in front of the computer and started playing games at one of the shops. Dad was furious, and he couldnt help it but scolded and hit me, but I did not tell him the real reason. Mummy, everyday I see Dad missing you and whenever he think of you, he is so sad and often hide and cry in his room. I think we both miss you very very much. Too much for our own good I think. But Mummy, I am starting to forget your face. Can you please appear in my dreams so that I can see your face and remember you? I heard that if you fall asleep with the photograph of the person whom you miss, you will see the person in your dreams. But mummy, why havent you appear? "

After reading the letter, I cant stop sobbing. 'cos I can never replace the irreplaceable gap left behind by my wife....

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For the females with children:
Don't do so much overtime. If you cannot finish the work, it must be some kind of problems within the company, and it is not your sole problem. Feedback to your boss. Endless overtime may not necessary be the answer to the problem. Take care of your health so that you can treasure and take care of your little precious.

For the married men:
Drink less, smoke less, cos nothing can replace your good health, not even business nor clients.
Try thinking this way, are you able to work till your clients are totally dependent on you? or your boss is totally dependent on you? In this society, no one is indispensable. Take care of your health, so that you can take care of your little precious and your loved ones.

For those singles out there:
Beauty lies in loving yourself first.
With confidence and loving yourself, you will see the beauty in other things around you. You will be able to work better and happier. Don't let your health be affected by your work or your boss, so nothing matters more than your well being.


Learn from the past, live in the present and work for the future.



*Saya suke cite nie.. xkisah berapa kali bace, sure touching gile.. time2 opis bace, mmg kne nyuruk2 la sbb da emo sket..hihi =D*